Inglês com vídeo: Como agir no primeiro encontro!

By Ana | Lições de Inglês

Jul 23
Inglês com vídeo Como agir no primeiro encontro

Você acha que existe uma maneira certa de se comportar na primeira vez que você sai com aquela pessoa que pode se tornar seu futuro namorado ou namorada? Bem, os americanos, que amam analisar as coisas e definir a maneira certa e errada de fazer tudo, tem várias opiniões sobre isso (veja os manuais sobre dating na Amazon.com).

O rapaz do vídeo abaixo é um dating coach (um expert em namoro) de Nova York que tem um conselho principal para quem está indo no primeiro encontro. Ele até trouxe uma assistente para ajudá-lo a demonstrar o que fazer.

Vamos a uma atividade?

1) Assista o vídeo algumas vezes, primeiro sem ler a transcrição. Repare como a moça está lá para ajudar a demonstrar o que ele quer dizer.

Deu pra pegar a ideia principal? Qual é o conselho desse expert? Se ainda não deu para pegar bem, ouça novamente o vídeo, agora com a transcrição abaixo (discurso natural):

“Hi, I am Art Malov from New York Dating Coach in New York City, and I am the author of Park Bench Dating. In this clip we’re going to talk about how to act on a date, and Jess is going to give me a great hand here, and acting on a date is quite simple. One thing I would suggest is, don’t sit face to face. See right now we’re sitting, this is very comfortable.

If you’re at a coffee shop, you can’t sit down, there is a table here, it’s very easy to just move your chair and sit down when it’s a much more relaxed position. Otherwise, if you’re sitting straight face to face, it feels like a business meeting.

It’s – and that’s absolutely the case. You will feel, once you change your position, right away you will feel like it’s more relaxed. You’re not just trying to discuss business, you’re here to have fun. So you might as well be in a good position, relaxed, and sitting in place as well. This has been Art Malov and how to act on a date.”

 

3) O rapaz explica o porquê da sua recomendação. Veja se você consegue responder a pergunta:

According to the dating coach, why should you avoid sitting face to face?

 

4) Agora é com você – now it’s your turn

Do you agree with this guy? Do you think the way you sit will make a difference in a date?

 

Deixe um comentário nos dizendo sua opinião. O que você acha sobre esse assunto? See you soon!

 

Ana
Aloan 30/07/2012

I Guess there isn’t recipe for that too.. Just be yourself for don’t complicate yourself.

Raymundo 26/07/2012

I don’t need any rule for my first date, although
I’m not sure anyone around the world needs it as well.

Raymundo

Elaine 24/07/2012

In my opinion, the tip until could help, but it doesn’t mean that will make a difference in a date. There´s no recipe to that!

    Ana 24/07/2012

    haha.. I guess it could help, Elaine, but many people like to face each other and look each other in the eye when talking. Even if it’s for the first time ;)

Débora 23/07/2012

In my opinion there isn’t a rule to a relationship works. We must not follow any relationship’s rules, follow your insights or maybe, your instincts. It naturally happens.

    Ana 24/07/2012

    I agree, Débora! The idea of following rules for this sounds a bit weird to me.

    in my opinion there isn´t arelationship works. we mustnot follow any relationship`s reles,follow your insights or maybe,your instincts.it naturally happens.

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